Morphic Field. The concept of morphic fields represents one of the most intriguing and controversial theories in contemporary science and therapeutic practice. Originally proposed by biologist Rupert Sheldrake in the 1980s, morphic fields offer a compelling framework for understanding phenomena that defy conventional scientific explanation—from the collective behaviors of organisms to the seemingly inexplicable information…
Family Constellations, also known as Systemic Constellations or Systemic Family Therapy, represents a powerful therapeutic approach that illuminates hidden dynamics within family systems and provides pathways toward resolution and healing. Developed by German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger in the 1990s, this methodology integrates elements from psychoanalysis, family systems therapy, existential phenomenology, and indigenous healing traditions to…
Say NO – The simple word “no” carries remarkable power. For many people, however, using this power effectively remains one of life’s greatest challenges. The inability to say no—to unreasonable requests, invasive behaviors, or activities that don’t align with our values—creates patterns of overcommitment, resentment, and disconnection from authentic needs. From Gestalt therapy and Somatic…
Believe – In an age characterized by unprecedented access to information, scientific advancement, and widespread questioning of traditional institutions, belief itself sometimes appears quaint or outdated. Skepticism and critical thinking are rightly valued, yet from a psychotherapeutic perspective—particularly through Gestalt and Somatic Experiencing lenses—the capacity to believe in something remains fundamentally important to psychological health,…
Brutal honesty. In a world where social niceties, diplomatic phrasing, and careful self-censorship often prevail, there exists a transformative force that many find both terrifying and liberating: brutal honesty. From a Gestalt therapy and Somatic Experiencing perspective, this raw, unfiltered truth-telling represents not merely communication but a profound pathway to psychological healing, authentic connection, and…
The phrase “betraying our parents” often evokes strong emotional reactions. It can sound harsh, even sacrilegious in cultures that deeply value filial piety and family loyalty. Yet, from a therapeutic perspective, particularly within Gestalt therapy and Somatic Experiencing frameworks, this psychological process represents not an act of disloyalty but a necessary developmental step toward authentic…
Self-Mistreatment Self-Mistreatment . In the quiet moments of self-reflection, many of us discover a harsh truth: we often treat ourselves in ways we would never treat others. The internal critic berates us for minor mistakes, we push our bodies beyond reasonable limits, deny ourselves rest, and engage in self-sabotaging behaviors that undermine our well-being and…
Trauma – How Trauma Shows Up in Everyday Decisions Trauma. Do you find yourself making choices that seem logical in the moment but create patterns that don’t align with your deeper values or desires? Perhaps you consistently avoid certain situations that objectively present minimal risk, automatically say yes to requests despite feeling overwhelmed, or…
Authentic selfhood – How to Reconnect with the Real You Authentic selfhood. Do you sometimes catch yourself wondering who you actually are beneath the roles you play? Perhaps you’ve become so adept at being what others need—the reliable colleague, the supportive friend, the perfect partner, the successful professional—that you’ve lost connection with your authentic…
How to Recognize an Inner Child Reaction Inner Child. Have you ever found yourself responding to a situation with emotions that seem disproportionate to what’s actually happening? Perhaps a minor criticism triggers intense shame, a slight delay in response from someone you care about creates overwhelming anxiety, or a simple boundary request sparks unexplained…